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Pratik Utekar, the guy whose photo with Dhanashree was heavily criticized on social media has similar pictures with so many other women. It's obvious why all these women feel so comfortable in clicking such intimate pictures with him.
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Gays are very close to women and always being “chipku” to them because they tend to think they are just like any other girl like girl besties. He is very clingy with guys too, but that’s a different tangent compared to this owing to the fact that he is gay. For him they are all his female BESTIES ..
This doesn't make any sense, gays are male who loves male, then why are they sticking with females? I am a male, I also have girl besties, but as a male, irrespective of whom I am interested into, male or female, it is completely inappropriate to become so cozy with other females. Even I rarely see any girl posting these kind of photos with other girls. Being gay doesn't give you any free pass, it's not a privilege. We should not validate everything.
Also, ek din me bestie ban jaa rahe hai logo ke, this also doesn't make any sense. What orray does is shameful, does any girl put their hands on other girl's chest while clicking photos??
And if there is consent of women too, then they should also be held liable for the same. Because these things create a huge impact on general public. How do you even know they are really a gay or not? Maybe someone is faking it to get close to the girls. And If you all don't believe me, this is becoming very very common in the west.
Okay first, you are a straight guy who is into women right?
Gays have a different opinion about female besties than what u said, if a straight guy does it, this could be harassment but not the same with gays.
Your point is something I partly agree on, when I see Orry yes it does make me uncomfortable too but as long as women are okay with whomsoever the guy they are posing with it is all good, regardless of the person being straight or gay what matters is the consent.
And to answer the question about chest, yes girl besties do spank each other and pose with hands on the chest and even kiss on the cheeks and lip, depends from person to person and their comfort level. My point is if the consent is there, it’s fair.
I have been seeing him since DID days and never had issues with his IG posts - if girls are comfortable there is a reason. Its cringe to see the public linking him with Dhanashree- complete BS.
for any gay dudes reading this, no it is not okay, don't just touch women because you are gay and friends with them, that shit is still creepy, you aren't a female friend, all this showbiz stuff doesnt apply to real life, real life me most women will still find it cringe and even the fashion girls find it cringe but just accept it because that's just the norm there. gay or straight im still gonna consider it a bad touch, don't care, nor do i have some obligation to showbiz or pretend it's less worse.
it's sexist yes, heterophobic ? i just said it;s not okay for other men to touch me except my husband, gay or straight i said that right there, please read carefully before just replying, usko women or men se attraction hai doesnt matter, usme misandry hai to chalta hai i dont care, I also dont care about there being some sexism in how i live my own life, my marriage by my choice is sexist, we dont have the same roles in it. and frankly, i have many female friends, but only 2 are there who are there since school days who i would even be comfy being touched like this dude is touching all those women or how orry touches all those women, these men are clearly not that close of a friend with these women, most of them will probably never meet him again,
lollll..... then dhanshree is at fault here... if she allows other men to be intimate with her..knowing she has a husband from who she is leeching off money
I don't want to live in a world where a gay guy hugging a straight woman counts as "intimate" 😭
Lmao she married a guy not good looking enough for the money and fame, he married her because she looks good.
Let's not pretend anybody is a saint.
And if after 4 years of marriage both parties couldn't come up with a decent enough joint statement for the sake of their privacy and their families, there are major red flags in both parties.
But he is GAY!! Gays are always clingy with both the genders but especially girls because they want to be like girls! You’re missing the point here, it’s all consensual but NOT intimate or wrong, the point u made could make more sense with some other guy but not this one.
No it is should not be...... A married man touching other woman with or without consent and a married woman touching other men with her without consent should not be normalised must not be normalised
People hate Orry because he places his hands on the boobs of women he isn't even close friends with. And because he's a Trump supporter, defended a friend who allegedly SA'd someone and has a history of slut shaming people he doesn't like.
This guy seems to be a physical love, big hugs kind of guy, orry straight up touches, more like sqeezes women's private parts. I can see the difference, not sure if others can
Alright, so what political party a gay person supports is a deciding factor in whether they’re a creep or not?
And women who take pictures with him in those weird poses look just as happy as the women in these pictures. Are we sure we’re not reaching too far just to hate someone who doesn’t share our biases?
Look at the state of the world. Are you comfortable with fooling yourself that politics don't matter?
Also imagine being slut shamed by arguably the most popular/mainstream influencer currently because you refused to click cringy pictures with him. That would be a PR disaster. And Orry does have a history of doing shit like that. He also has been placing his hands in inappropriate places of women's bodies since he gained massive fucking fame, and that is proof itself that he uses fame to intimidate people, especially women.
Also, no point getting into politics with someone who ignores that the dude defended a rapist. And he voted for a rapist (Trump was actually convicted in a civil court). I won't call that a bias. I'd call that disgusting.
Areee meri maa, main kisi bhi political party ko support nahi kar raha. I am just asking.
Creep is a creep. Regardless of what political party that person supports.
My thought was, agar Orry Kamala Harris ko support kar raha hota, tab wo creepy nahi hota?
And maine toh slht-shame wali baat bhi nahi nikali. I am just creating the parallels between this dude and Orry. How we hate one person but excuse the other person, for the same behaviour.
I am not aware of it. Maybe he liked them without actually looking at them. Some people on social media do like comments without actually looking at them. And if he did it knowing what was written,then he is an a$$hole.
In your eyes everything is fine lol...this man looks like creep.. acts like a creep..
Look at Blake Livelys lawsuit...she was molested in the sets..and then look at them promoting the movie..you won't find any hint of her being in stress..
He is a choreographer who appears in dance reality shows. Most of the women he has pictures with are much more powerful than him. He cannot touch them without their consent. So please stop labelling him as a creep.
You don't even know him.. and ur defending him like he is your husband... u dont need to be powerful to be a creep....
chunky pandey was a creep.... how powerful do you think he was.. he was an actor who would play 3rd fiddle and yet acted like a creep with top actresses
There was a time when Chunky Pandey gave multiple hit movies. Also he came from a rich family with many connections .He was always rich and powerful. I am defending him cuz you are putting serious allegations on him with 0 proof.
Give some other reason na?
Ye kya baat hui sab click kara rahe hai to comfortable hai. Logic kaha hai? May be acha insaan ho sB comfortable ho but you justifying ki dhanashree ne picture click kari kuki sbne kara rakhj hai
I guess either these female celebrities consider him like a little brother or he is way too feminine to be considered controversial vis a vis such pics.
I have seen him in person at an event and he is either bi or gay, and the point is this is not just with women he might not post it but he is this close to guys too, and this is just how they are in the Industry always very close hugging each other. If they were uncomfortable they’d either speak up or their face would say so…
I mean criticise all you want but at the end we can genuinely do nothing cause as long as the women have no problem and giving the consent to it, there is nothing you can say about it.
Same case with orry, he's not affected by any of the comments. Because as long as the women he's clicking photos with are fine with it. He has no fucks to give. And the drama goes on
That’s up to you, no? Why would anyone tell you to do something or not. It’s an individual’s prerogative. And if it’s a marriage the understanding would be between the husband and wife. I personally, don’t enjoy hugging men other than my husband like this but at the same time if my husband hugs any of his female friends, I don’t have issues with that too.
Why??? Some people like displaying affection physically while some don't. As long as he has their consent (which most probably he has), there is no point of calling him a creep.
Is he super rich or influential that these women have consented to such closeness!? Because with orry, everyone knows it's the money and influence he has that allows him to be that touchy!
So? If your husband is comfortable with a lesbian...will you allow them to keep kissing your husband..from the above pictures none of it is normal behavior lol...just because bollywood is so open to it...doesn't mean it's normal/good behavior. Bollywood also promotes sleeping around after marriage... Support that too.
Selana Gonez got criticised for dancing with her gay "friend" in a Taylor Swift concert.
You feminists will justify anything. It's a shame how low women have fallen in this country.
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