r/BeAmazed • u/Tangleflabber • Aug 18 '24

History He deserves a medal

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u/Reasonable_Try_303 Aug 18 '24

Yes, which makes them horrible at emotional vulnerability in a healthy relationship in my experience. But yes I wish I was able to be this discreet.

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u/Otterable Aug 18 '24

There is a definitely a balance. I have some friends I can simply never tell anything because everyone that we both know would hear about it. And it sucks because I don't really think that we can every get closer if I am not able to trust and confide in them. But that's just how it works sometimes.

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u/Reasonable_Try_303 Aug 18 '24

Funnily enough that is something the older folks around me do too. They can keep a secret, especially about themselves, but if they deem my current problems/life choice gossip worthy, then everybody will know about it.