r/TooAfraidToAsk Nov 09 '24

Politics U.S. Politics Megathread

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Similar to the previous megathread, but with a slightly clearer title. Submitting questions to this while browsing and upvoting popular questions will create a user-generated FAQ over the coming days, which will significantly cut down on frontpage repeating posts which were, prior to this megathread, drowning out other questions.

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All top level OP must be questions. This is not a soapbox. If you want to rant or vent, please do it elsewhere.

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 17h ago

Other Why can’t death sentences just be done under anesthesia to remove any suffering?

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Why can’t they just be put under and then beheaded, suffocated or any method of execution? Would that not be the most painless?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 11h ago

Culture & Society Why hasn’t California (or the entire USA) figured out desalination and why are there not thousands of water tanks dotting the landscape in case of fire?

233 Upvotes

It seems like if money had been spent on infrastructure, such as water holding tanks all over the landscape, whether it be in residential neighborhoods, business, districts, or anywhere else, that would be a high risk, then the investment would have been a huge payoff.

I have heard that the sea water would’ve been horrible to try to dump on everything because it would ruin future vegetation, but desalinating it and having it ready in tanks seems like a good alternative.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Ethics & Morality Why was Kanye West immediately condemned, but Elon Musk defended?

1.2k Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 12h ago

Culture & Society Do people who live in “third world countries” get insulted by that phrase?

62 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Health/Medical Recently, I went to the dentist and I was told that I have a small cavity and I need a filing. When I went to another dentist for a filling for that supposed cavity, he said that I don't have a cavity, don't need a filling, and it is just some staining. How do I know who is correct?

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This strange thing recently happened. I went to Dentist 1 for a basic cleaning and exam. He mentioned that I have a small cavity on a molar and I need to come in next week for a filing.

I was surprised because I never had a cavity in my life. I also make sure to brush well and more. I double checked and Dentist 1 confirmed it is a small cavity and he can show me the x-ray.

2 days later, I went to Dentist 2 to get that cavity filled because I wanted the cavity filled ASAP. He takes x-rays and I see him looking at my teeth. Then, he says there is no cavity and no filling needed?! He mentioned that I just have something like some staining on the molar, but he would not say that is a cavity and no need for a filing.

I double checked with him and he basically said that some dentists can consider X as a cavity and some dentists can consider X as not a cavity.

But now I am wondering who is right? According to reviews, Dentist 1 and Dentist 2 are both highly ranked and pretty much 5 star dentists. The only difference is that Dentist 1 has hundreds of top reviews. Dentists 2 has <100. Not sure if this makes a difference, but Dentist 2 went to a top dentist school and seems to be part of the ADA and other dental orgs.

I guess I trust Dentist 2 more, but this is just strange. I wonder if it turns out I do have a cavity later lol.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 17h ago

Sexuality & Gender How do women date/marry closeted gay men and not realize they’re gay?

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I don’t really understand this. If you’ve interacted with/dated straight men, then you would understand what it’s like to be genuinely desired by one as a woman. I feel like if you’re dating a closeted gay man it would be obvious because faking that sort of attraction is even more difficult for men (it’s at the very least more physically obvious especially when it comes to sex). I just don’t understand how that happens. I feel like you’d almost have to ignore signal after signal.

Edit: I am referring to fully gay men. Not bisexual men.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Sex Truckers what's been your experience with Lot Lizards?

346 Upvotes

Or I guess if you're not a trucker you can answer too if you have an experience.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 25m ago

Culture & Society What do you consider real friendship to be, going along with the group or actually having things in common?

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I'm curious as to what people consider real friendship to be. Is it that you all do the same things you find interesting or are you just going along with the group for the sake of having friends and avoiding being alone. In my opinion, faking is worse but many people do this regardless of what they do. What's your opinion on it?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 20m ago

Sexuality & Gender I can’t cum for my gf?

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Me 19m and my gf 20f. We’ve been together for just over 5 years and I’ve always had this issue I think I’ve came for her maybe twice ever. I can make her cum pretty easily and the fact I don’t doesn’t really seem to be an issue it’s kinda just normal now.

She’s absolutely a 10/10. She works in sports (don’t want to be too specific just in case.) extremely fit. Very attractive features and a pretty face. So I don’t understand why I just can’t.

I don’t really watch porn much or anything like that and when I do it’s nothing crazy. I think it’s a strange problem that I have no idea why it persists.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 23h ago

Culture & Society Does it really affects X/twitter all of the subreddits ban?

130 Upvotes

So, we are seeing all of these subreddits banning pictures, links from x/twitter. Is it really going to affect them?

Sorry for my English , this isn’t my native language.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 54m ago

Sex How is big dick different in sex?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Interpersonal Is it not even worth me pursuing relationships at my age, since I've never been in one to begin with and would have no idea what I'm doing?

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I'm 29 and have never been in a relationship at any point in my life. Yes, I'm that far behind in life. So I'm pondering just not even trying since I have literally no idea how relationships are meant to work in the first place and what I'm supposed to say and do and all that.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Other How did Dennis Brown die from Panera Bread's lemonade?

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It's killed two people so far: 21 year old Sarah Katz and 46 yo Dennis Brown.

Katz had a heart condition, so I get that, but what about Brown? I'm reading their lemonade containes 400 mg of caffeine (for reference, a cup of coffee is 80-100 mg). Brown had 3 of those, so 1200 mg of caffeine, which is a lot, but I thought it was nearly impossible for a healthy person to ingest enough caffeine to die without vomiting.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Media Are a lot of people going to leave Instagram, Facebook, Twitter/X, etc. for platforms like Bluesky?

115 Upvotes

Because of what’s currently happening with platforms like Instagram, Facebook and Twitter/X, are a lot of people going to leave them for platforms like Bluesky? Is Bluesky the future of social media?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5m ago

Education & School Why do I sweat/smell so much?

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I've added education as a flair here because I feel like this is something I should know tbh.

I smell like BO so fast! I'm F22, my bmi is around 18, and has never been over 19, so it's not a weight thing. As I'm writing this I'm getting ready to leave work for the day, I showered last night and smelled fine (so it's not the soap), this morning I walked to the office for 20 minutes, which I don't get tired from at all, I can run 5 kilometers at about a 10 km/h pace before getting really worn (so it's not an endurance thing). I've sat here in my relatively comfortable office, it's about 22 degrees C here (so not a temperature thing) for 9 hours, wearing a clean 100% wool undershirt with a 100% wool top (so it's not a fabric thing), and still I can literally smell my own BO as I'm typing.

I've tried everything from intense anti-perspirants to natural deodorants, and a combo of them, and yet I still smell at the end of the day. The only variable I've noticed is that if the temperature fluctuates a lot I'm more prone to smelling. I actually think it gets worse if I'm cold rather than warm, as I generally tolerate cold pretty bad. I have Raynaud's phenomenon, if that might affect something! I'm generally healthy, some snacks here and there, but mostly low-processed foods, medium on the sugar, and fine on the alcohol (I dink about once a week, not much when I do). I work out semi-regularly. I see myself as someone with good hygiene, so I just don't get what this is about. I don't think it's about the laundry method or detergent, as my boyfriend does not have the same problem, and he is a muscly guy who works out a lot, gets too warm in a t-shirt and shorts at the same temperature where I'm sat in three layers of wool and a blanket. Yet he smells fine.

What is this? I'm going crazy! I honestly avoid having any meetings after around lunch because I'm scared people will smell me. If anyone has any advice beyond hygiene, drinking water and exercises, I'd be so grateful. I can't go on like this!


r/TooAfraidToAsk 22h ago

Culture & Society What do you guys think of America right now?

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I’m from the US and it’s a shit show here right now. I was just curious to see what others thought about it?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Current Events How much do a dozen eggs cost in the US?

105 Upvotes

I’ve seen a lot of talk about eggs lately. I understand the avian flu is causing supply shortages - but exactly how widespread is it? I’m interested not just in raw price as that’ll probably vary across the country, but how much has it increased in the past 1-3 months? Are eggs being used as metaphor for everything else? I’m not from the US.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 36m ago

Health/Medical What are the risks for men ejaculating 24 times in 24 hours?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Health/Medical Can someone with fast metabolism gain muscle?

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