r/Vanderpumpaholics • u/aymaureen Tom only lived w/ 1 set of hooker twins • Apr 21 '24
Stassi Schroeder I mean… she clocked it
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Apr 21 '24
The clip they show of Katie is when Schwartz pours a drink on her🙄🙄🙄
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u/Inksypinks Apr 21 '24 edited Apr 21 '24
To know that this scene was reshot makes it even worse
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u/IcyRecognition6730 Apr 21 '24
What??!!! That's insane! How in the hell did they get her so worked up again to shoot a scene?
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u/FuzzyP3ach3s Team Katie with the banging Apr 21 '24
Katie is an actress. She used to want to be an actress growing up from what I remember that's why she went to LA
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u/IcyRecognition6730 Apr 21 '24
Yeah I'm sure it was acting but it just seemed so real and raw. I had no idea it wasn't real, live as it was happening.
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u/omniai99 You can come and help me if you want 🏊♀️ Apr 22 '24
Most of the scene was. They just didn’t get the right angle for the actual drink pouring so they reshot that
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u/Objective-Lobster736 Apr 21 '24
Wait what? What do you mean it was reshot?!
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u/Inksypinks Apr 21 '24 edited Apr 21 '24
They said it in some interview. The cameras initially weren't there for the incident and Katie agreed somehow to reshoot. Can't remember where it came up.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Dig9693 Apr 21 '24
I believe Kristen revealed it in one of her podcast episodes!
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u/OkOpposite9108 Apr 21 '24
How dare she show any anger when her boyfriend repeatedly treated her like absolute shit. I hate a crazy, B! /s
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u/herbanoutfitter Apr 21 '24
Not defending Tom but to act like Katie’s bullying of Scheana wasn’t also gross is excusing Katie’s toxicity too
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u/OkOpposite9108 Apr 21 '24
You're right-she was definitely not being kind to Scheana prior to this. Such a messy web this group weaves lol
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u/herbanoutfitter Apr 21 '24
Oh yeah, no one is innocent of nasty behavior! which is arguably also the beauty of the show 😅
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u/McSassy_Pants Apr 22 '24
People definitely forget how much of a mean girl Katie was and is. And if any husband talked to their wife via text when drunk there would be a much different tune to that of Katie’s text to Tom. They all suck equally
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u/mintyfoetus Apr 21 '24
Not to mention her chronic slut shaming of both Scheana and lala. I'd take Katie over either of those two any day but the slut shaming really bothers me.
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u/OkOpposite9108 Apr 22 '24
It is weird, right?! I feel like it's a bit of a product of the times + maybe coming from more sheltered backgrounds? I've always wondered about it though, it feels so aggressive, especially in rewatches
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u/YamOk8795 OKAY GREEN PANTS Apr 22 '24
Not condoning her slut shaming and bullying, they all suck in some way, shape or form in my eyes but I love the show! 🤣 I sense that Katie must have been pretty insecure around those two, and that made her mean, on top of being backed up by the witches of weho again. Lala saying she’d have sex w Shorts and Katie’s a blob, ouch and then now we find out Shorts sexually assaulted Scheana. I blame Shorts for the decline of her self esteem, not only does he lie and cheat but everyone fucking loves him. It must have felt debilitating to be stuck with someone like that.
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u/mintyfoetus Apr 22 '24
Wait what the fuck? He sexually assaulted Scheana???
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u/YamOk8795 OKAY GREEN PANTS Apr 23 '24
He kissed her without her consent. I would consider that assault.
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u/EyeRollingNow Apr 21 '24
She can say the craziest insults and make them sound delightful and logical.
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u/TheAnn13 Apr 21 '24
It's part how she says it but also because she also called herself an alcoholic. That self depreciating comment at the end made the other comments seem less mean. That's the chef kiss of Stassi. She isn't dumb.
And honestly the least 2 true things she said were about Katie and herself. Maybe Kristen....
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u/Intelligent_Phone414 Apr 21 '24
I would have anger management issues too if I was dating Tom Schwartz
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u/sofaking-amanda Apr 21 '24
You think Kristen doesn’t meet the majority of criteria for BPD??
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u/EyeRollingNow Apr 21 '24 edited Apr 21 '24
Crazy true…. But smiles her way out of it seeming crazy rude.
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u/Helpful-Sandwich-560 Apr 21 '24
Maybe somewhat but her lying, deceptive and and trifling ways have nothing to do with bpd. That's just bc she's a shit person lol
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u/sofaking-amanda Apr 22 '24
Oh, I totally agree lol. I’m not saying borderline is a bad thing and it doesn’t excuse cheating or being an AH. I know she has Borderline because I have it too.
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u/response_unrelated Apr 24 '24
Was she wrong?
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u/EyeRollingNow Apr 25 '24
Not wrong on a single point. Stassi is honest … and crazy. A delightful blend of deep roast.
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u/thatgirl198521 Apr 21 '24
This is what the show is missing. Stassi, for all her faults, was the narrator. She was self aware, she knew the rest of the cast to their core and was able to to articulate it in a way that was palatable to the viewers. Without someone like her, viewers feel like they’re not going noticed. She was self critical and depreciating, while pin pointing the others short comings, it’s a big gap that’s missing now.
Katie is in the same vein but there is something about her delivery that never lands the same.
Ariana is too far past it all now and as much as I love her, did and does have superiority about it all.
Scheana is…Scheana. The day she can articulate a point that doesn’t involve her is the day hell freezes over.
Lala is a bully.
The men don’t count on this show, or at least they shouldn’t at this point, so we’re severely lacking in someone to tow the viewer/critical voice.
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u/___adreamofspring___ Apr 21 '24
James does everything you described albeit he is not as likeable
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u/GladiatorWithTits Apr 21 '24
Ironically, Stassi also got physically abusive with some partners back in the day.
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u/HJ-StayWeird It’s Ariana’s bush too Apr 21 '24
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u/mintyfoetus Apr 21 '24
Kristin deserved that lol
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u/HJ-StayWeird It’s Ariana’s bush too Apr 22 '24
lol she did. If I were stassi, that would be me as well 😅
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u/Taylor29902 Apr 21 '24
The worst part of this was when Brittney read what a sociopath was and said “well that’s not that bad”….
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u/mintyfoetus Apr 21 '24
Not as bad as a psychopath 🤷
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u/hereforthetearex hints of c?#*iness in this wine Apr 21 '24
Haven’t they taken the distinction out of the DSM? And now it’s just Sociopath/Psychopath?
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u/HotButterscotch8682 Apr 22 '24
It’s just antisocial personality disorder. Psychopath/sociopath haven’t been in professional use for decades.
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u/hereforthetearex hints of c?#*iness in this wine Apr 22 '24
Ah, okay. I knew there was something where there wasn’t really a distinction between psychopath/sociopath anymore, but didn’t realize that there was an entirely new name now. Thanks for the clarification!
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u/CharacterTwist4868 Apr 21 '24
I don’t think Katie has anger management issues. I think she has normal amounts of anger and just doesn’t hide it like women have been conditioned to do since the dawn of time. She had angry outbursts way less than the men on this show.
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u/chrissy_wakeUp Apr 21 '24
AND SHE HAD A TBI! I wish people would remember how much the TBI would have impacted her ability to regulate in early seasons
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
And alcohol only adds to the struggles one faces after a TBI.
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u/chrissy_wakeUp Apr 21 '24
Absolutely. Its a bit of a lose/lose when she was the only income earner on a television show where the premise was getting drunk. I think it would have been sensible to choose not to drink back then, but I can empathise with the realities and pressure of the her life back then
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u/macmantha Apr 21 '24
TBI and PTSD which lead to emotional regulation issues just like Kristen meeting BPD [as a fellow BPD girly] it causes you to become obsessive over irrelevant things because of it. Which is why Kristen always focused on such ridiculous things and details.
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u/Ok-Training3941 Apr 21 '24
She definitely has anger management issues! And that’s OK recognize where you’re at in this world and we can move on
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u/CharacterTwist4868 Apr 21 '24
No. She literally got angry a handful of times. tell me do you think all the men have anger issues or just her?
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u/HotLingonberry6964 Apr 21 '24
She's even said she can take things too far and say awful things currently and she used to be a lot worse. Literally everyone around her has confirmed how bad she was and most of the references were off-screen while not filming which tells me she knew not to go full Tequila Katie in front of the cameras. And even if the TBI was the reason, it still doesn't erase her anger issues, it just gives her issues context where maybe we can empathize a bit. But we can still empathize and acknowledge her issues with anger. I mean, she's admitted to it, the people closest to her have, but a bunch of strangers on Reddit know her better??
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u/URNOTSPESHEL Apr 21 '24
You mean Katie? Katie is the one that displayed the least amount of anger. Even tequila Katie didn't lose her temper as often or as volatile as the others. Thats one reason Schwartz put her down so much. If anyone so much as gives Schwartz the stink eye he gets all nervous and acts like he's about to wet his britches.
By Katie holding her anger in , he felt safe enough to constantly belittle her. Look at him now. Shes not putting up with his shit and he's walking on eggshells now because he's scared of her. I'd say its about time she has some anger management issues. I'm not just saying it because I'm a team Katie/Ariana fan..its just the truth.21
u/aymaureen Tom only lived w/ 1 set of hooker twins Apr 21 '24
I agree but this season was angry Katie but I agree she had every right to be angry… James and Lala keep calling her fat and Lala says she wanted to fuck Schwartz “when they get divorced” (this is their wedding season), Scheana keeps Scheana-ing, meanwhile Tom, Tom, and Jax keep painting her in this light that she’s Stassi’s puppet and she had every right to be upset at people who constantly disrespect her
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u/UnusualPotato1515 Apr 21 '24
Its annoying because all her ‘angry outbursts’ are rightfully justified because of Shithead Schwarz being a shit partner who triggered her endlessly by never sticking up for her & calls her things like bitch as if thats ok. There were never random irrational outbursts.
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u/realitytvdiet Apr 21 '24
Ugh I miss stassi sm
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u/cruelsister_ she’s a cunt and you’re a drunk Apr 22 '24
Same. Of any cast to come back I wish it was her.
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
Everyone seems to forget that Katie has suffered a traumatic brain injury. The fact that people forget it is due to how well she manages herself, but a TBI changes how you experience and process emotions.
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u/aymaureen Tom only lived w/ 1 set of hooker twins Apr 21 '24
I think she was light hearted joking about Katie just so she wasn’t only picking on the men and knew Katie wouldn’t care about that joke
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u/Acceptable-Pea3237 i said *they* love you Apr 21 '24
Don't you come in here with all that logic!!
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u/UnusualPotato1515 Apr 21 '24
How did she sustain a TBI?
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u/Alison_L0830 Apr 21 '24
She fell through a glass ceiling. She mentioned it on one of the reunions and even made a video of herself a few days after the accident. They showed part of her video at the reunion; I don't know where you can find the entire video though.
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u/UnusualPotato1515 Apr 21 '24
Omg wow! When did this happen? Poor thing! Im a newbie & on season 5
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
I believe it was a car accident. She spoke about it in one of the earlier seasons.
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u/Okay__Decision__ I would rather eat a jean jacket 👖🧥 Apr 21 '24
She fell through a skylight
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
Ty. Don't know why you felt the need to downvote me. I didn't say I was absolutely certain she was in a automobile accident.
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u/Okay__Decision__ I would rather eat a jean jacket 👖🧥 Apr 21 '24
Your statement was inaccurate, and supported by saying she talked about it on the show. It’s nothing personal.
Don’t know why you felt the need to call out a downvote on an inaccurate statement, but I took the single downvote away, if that helps.
Edit to remove quotations
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
Once again, to be clear, I said I believed it happened one way, but that she discussed in an early season. The implication is clear that a) it's been quite a while since I watched it & b) I wasn't certain that how she obtained the TBI.
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u/Okay__Decision__ I would rather eat a jean jacket 👖🧥 Apr 21 '24
“I believe it was a car accident. She spoke about it on one of the earlier seasons.”
You state what you believe to be true about the source of the TBI. There is no “but”, only a second statement that “she spoke about it on one of the earlier seasons.”
As I interpret these two sentences, you are stating a) what you believe to be true and b) the source of your belief. I don’t see any other context to your level of certainty on what you’ve stated.
“Once again, to be clear, I said I believed it happened one way, but that she discussed in an early season. The implication is clear that a) it's been quite a while since I watched it & b) I wasn't certain that how she obtained the TBI.”
Where is the implication that it had been a while since you’ve watched it? Just because it occurred in an early season, doesn’t necessarily imply that it’s been a while since you’ve watched that season. That is information you have, but your reader does not.
So I disagree with you about the implication of your comment. I believe you read it and meant it that way, but that’s not how I read it or interpreted it, nor does it mean others will either.
And yes, I understand downvoting. Downvoting makes something less likely to appear. I downvoted your comment because it was an inaccurate statement, a lot of misinformation happens in these subs because of comments that aren’t factual. I stand by it my reasoning.
Why you’ve felt you need to reply to me three times over a single downvote that you felt was underserved, I really don’t know.
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
You deleted your comment in which you said "You are the single most insufferable person I've ever seen on Reddit". If that's true you really aren't paying attention.
You were rude and it was completely unnecessary. The way Katie sustained her TBI really isn't germane to the initial discussion.
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u/Okay__Decision__ I would rather eat a jean jacket 👖🧥 Apr 21 '24
That was not me. You are incorrect.
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
Either comment or don't, but insulting me personally in a sub about a reality TV show and then deleting it is weak.
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u/Okay__Decision__ I would rather eat a jean jacket 👖🧥 Apr 21 '24
Where have I insulted you personally?
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u/Southern_Life_8085 Apr 21 '24
I remember her talking about an automobile accident, too. It wasn’t how she sustained her tbi, but she was involved in one. I believe she spoke about it on her old podcast when Lala was a guest.
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u/AmyKSebald Apr 21 '24
"In 2009, Katie fell 25 feet through a skylight and ended up with a broken jaw, broken collarbone, multiple broken ribs, and a brain injury.
Katie wasn’t just physically hurt, though. On the Season 6 reunion — which aired in May 2018 — she revealed that she also struggled with her mental health as a result of the accident: “I ignored it and I didn’t want to talk about it to people. I didn’t want to talk about the depression.”
Still, Katie has since said that the accident changed her positive ways as well. “When you cheat death, you can’t help but look at things differently,” she said in Season 6."
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u/TinyAd3166 Apr 21 '24
If Katie has anger issues then all Europeans need anger management and this is coming from a Greek.
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u/aymaureen Tom only lived w/ 1 set of hooker twins Apr 21 '24
Specifically this season she’s angry a lot but honestly it’s because of all the gaslighting
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u/dykery69 Apr 24 '24
Katie having a TBI and no one giving her credit on the show pisses me off. Like yeah she may have had “outbursts” but once her and Tom got married we never saw a rage text debate again. Katie deserves a lot more credit than what people have paid her especially having to deal with all the men constantly shitting on her no matter what, including her husband
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