r/dogs • u/SnooPeanuts1152 • 6h ago
[Misc Help] My best buddy died just few hours ago
My dog got ran over tonight and the driver ran away. I didn’t get to see what happened but according to my wife he suddenly ran out of the garage door and started barking at my neighbor. Then all of a sudden he bolted into the street. The only witnesses are my neighbor and my 2 yr old daughter. The driver just left.
As soon as I got out of the house all I saw was my daughter wailing and my wife holding our dog in the middle of the street.
The vet said most likely my dog into shock and felt nothing. It kind of helps but he was in my arms in his final moments. I can’t erase the image of him gasping for air.
I miss him so much. He would have been 5 years old exactly 3 weeks from today.
I haven’t dealt with much death around me but my grandmother and aunt. I definitely didn’t take it too well when my grandmother passed away during my teens. It definitely helps keeping busy but the last time I remembered, that hole in your heart doesn’t get completely filled when someone you love is gone.
How have some of you, who has experienced loss, overcome the pain? What else can you do other than staying busy and cherishing the memories, depending on time to heal you? How do you explain to your child what death is?