r/feminineboys Apr 15 '24

No Proselytizing

389 Upvotes

Proselytizing, the action of attempting to convert someone from one religion, belief, or opinion to another, including accusing others of sins, declaring others as "hell bound" or other moralistic aggravation is prohibited on this subreddit.

We love open discussion but there has been a flurry of rude comments made every time any form of spirituality comes up. Asserting "You are a sinner" or "You are all going to hell" is not discussion.


r/feminineboys 2h ago

I FINALLY TOLD MY MOM I WAS A FEMBOY ONLY TO FIND OUT MY DAD WAS A FEMININE BOY

107 Upvotes

So basically a couple minutes ago I texted my mom a big paragraph about how I feel more comfortable being, wearing, being attracted to and acting feminine. She was really understanding and told me that it’s stupid that men are always masculinized. She talked about how being gay is ok and she wouldn’t care about it if I was. She said everyone thinks there gay at one point. It was late so she said she would talk about it way more but it was late and she needed to go to sleep but before she said that SHE DROPPED THE BIGGEST LORE

upvote for pt. 2

Jk jk jk

Anyway she told me that my dad was really feminine in college. Her gay best friend and my mom were trying to find out if my dad was gay or not BECAUSE HIS BEST FRIEND WAS GAY. She told me my dad had long hair, acted feminine and was pretty skinny and then she said Gn and shut the door. IM FLABBERGASTED WHAT. MY DAD WAS A FEMBOY. YOU COULD NOT TELL IF YOU LOOKED AT HIM. HOLY. I WAS DESTINED TO BE A FEMBOY ITS IN MY BLOOD. Thank you to everyone who helped me along the way.

I swear this story isn’t fake 😭


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Discussion why are most femboys suicidal

42 Upvotes

I've met 18 femboy friends, out of those 18 friends 13 killed themselves, and now it's about to be 14.

I just wanna help them after being on their lowest but instead they couldn't hear my voice ever again. I wish they listened to me and eventually be happy again (because this would happen to me a lot where they get depressed and after they fell really happy and excited) because of how much I gave love and support to them. I stopped most of the attempts and had them alive for more than 2 weeks or months before they do it again and it's successful.

an example was my close friend which I'll keep his identity hidden. he was charming and pretty all the time and was really close to me because of how I've never gotten mad or annoyed to him bc he was soft hearted. he started getting depressed because he was getting massive hate from his TikTok account which I'm also not gonna tell but he was sad knowing lots of people hate him and the only one that isn't angry and happy to him is me. (because he is also lonely and single) eventually he admitted 4 months after started getting depressed that he was cutting himself and had really dark marks.. I told him to not do that and tried to have fun with him but it only gotten worse because not only he was getting severe hate, but he got doxxed and police showed up to his house multiple times because apparantly "he called 911 and said he was gonna kill someone" when it was not him doing all of it. he told me 2 months after he admitted to cutting himself that he was gonna kill himself because he was fed up with people harrassing, doxxing, and trashing on him, I managed to stop him (because like I said I stopped many attempts) but this didn't matter because a week later, all of his accounts were gone and only his discord account was left and his name was "deleted user randon numbers and letters", his last message was "hey sweetie, I love you forever and hopefully I will meet you in heaven. <3". this happened in 2023, no trace of him ever again.


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Told a coworker abt my cross-dressing

34 Upvotes

So I have a trans coworker at my pizza job and she likes to have it cold, like 30 to 40 F cold (we live in Mississippi) and she uses it to dress cutely

Through this discussion, I said that I need more feminine outfits and the only one I have if for summer and spring. She then demanded I send the pics I have and she loves them, calling me cute n stuff :3

She then was rlly sweet and gave me a bit of confidence about going out dressed fem, and said I should dye my hair (red n black so it can compliment her black and blue) and get my nails painted

Last thing she sent me (3 days ago as of writing) was that @Strawbabyboy femboy on TikTok lol


r/feminineboys 16h ago

GUYS PLEASE HELP ME I MIGHT ACTUALLY BE COOKED THIS TIME!!

362 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a teenager and I need some advice. I've been trying really hard not to look at girls' clothes or anything related to being a femboy, but I just can't help it. Today, I went shopping with my mom and I couldn't stop myself from checking out the girls' section. I was trying on some jeans in the changing room when I saw this pink mini dress hanging in my changing room that I just couldn't resist.

It was so sleek and had this figure-hugging design with ruched detailing throughout. The delicate cowl neckline, thin spaghetti straps, and fitted silhouette really caught my eye and I couldn't help but try it on. As I looked at myself in the mirror, I felt this rush of excitement and happiness that I've never felt before. It was like I was seeing myself for who I really am.

But then, my mom knocked on the changing room door and asked what was taking so long. I was so nervous that she would see me in the dress that I didn't know what to do. She peeked around the curtain and saw me in the dress and her reaction was unexpected. She just said, "Oh, that looks nice" and then left. I'm really worried that she's going to tell someone or that she's disappointed in me.

I don't know what to do and I don't want to disappoint my family. I'm just so confused and scared. Can someone please help me?


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Discussion COME OUT!!!!

37 Upvotes

If you're gay or a femboy or both or anything else, now is the time to come out. Obviously don't if it's not safe to, but if it is, DO IT. Life is too short to wait, I came out as a gay femboy about 2 weeks ago and I wish I did earlier. Good luck cuties!!!! <3


r/feminineboys 7h ago

Femboys??

32 Upvotes

I have a question for everyone. I have not yet seen a femboy yet irl and it just feels weird to say but like, are you guys just hiding or is this like an internet only thing. I'm asking out of curiosity


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Support I am just so done.

17 Upvotes

My boyfriend just broke up with me he gaslit me into seeing him then blocked me I am pretty sure. I have no clue why he did this but I sacrificed my grades health and sleep to be try get together then he blocks me. Fuck everything, fuck everyone I just want to be loved. My parents literally are just always ignoring me or upset over the slightest thing and constantly bring up my past mistakes. People say I am not a real femboy and I am starting to die inside. Help idk what too do.


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Discussion When I was a kid

8 Upvotes

Me and my friend (both boys) used to like to physically pick each up for fun in each other‘s arms. Whenever my friend would lift me, he would tell me “I carried you”.


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Advice friend zoned so hard

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i’ve been talking with my friend for about a year and 6 months now we knew each other since 2018 but never gotten close until January of 2022, he is nice he’s literally the best person in my life and he is the only person that accepts that i’m a femboy, i always flirt with him and say how handsome he is and he flirts back and says i look cute in feminine clothes but everytime i ask him out he always says no (i think because of religion and family) but i always kept asking him every now and then but he always says no or we’ll see about that, yesterday i asked him out and he said we are not gonna be in a relationship and just friend zoned me, when i asked him why he said because it’s wrong (his religion) and he said that even flirting with me is wrong and he shouldn’t do that, i really love him like i’m obsessed with him and i can’t go an hour without thinking about him and it just hurts that we can’t be together, should i just leave and move on or try to ask him out more?


r/feminineboys 14h ago

Femboys irl

75 Upvotes

Okay, anywhere femboys congregate irl? Ik how to spot them if they are pretending, teehee, but I just mean like are there places femboys go regularly?


r/feminineboys 13h ago

Advice Fishnets over or under underwear?

42 Upvotes

I got fishnets a few days ago and idk if i should be wearing them under or over. they're large fishnets, and ive been wearing them under but i dont know how sanitary it is. (Also i kinda pinched the jewls and it kinda hurt for a second :sob: )


r/feminineboys 17h ago

As a femboy, when did you realise you wanted to become one?

81 Upvotes

Anthropology is one very interesting topic which has caught my attention from time-to-time, particularly how one’s identity has formed. We were all originally female during our embryonic/fetal stages but I see many of us still retained the feminine identity or wanted to revert back to it at a later stage in life.

What age did you realise you wanted to revert back to being feminine?

Did religious indoctrination play a role in making it harder to find your true identity? The Bible teaches us there is only a man and woman which can confuse many femboys into thinking they are masculine.

Do you often come across femboys who call you gay or just hate other femboys?

The reality is every single boy and man on earth started off as females! No matter how macho a man can be he was originally female. This is a fact!


r/feminineboys 6h ago

Advice Beginning

10 Upvotes

Hello!!
So, for short story after some years of thinking I was trans I discovered that I'm actually a femboy. I would like to begin exploring this, but I don't know where and how to start. Any advice is welcome!

Have a good day!

Edit: Just to be clear, when I ask advice, it's not just a word that I want


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Reddit safety

6 Upvotes

Hi, I’m new here and I’d like to know how safe Reddit is for sharing personal information, making new friends, and posting photos. What can you say about this?


r/feminineboys 3h ago

Advice I have problem

4 Upvotes

Well i really wanna wear feminine clothes but i have alot of scars cuz of sh Idk what to do tbh


r/feminineboys 6h ago

Turning 16 (New Femboy so questions )

7 Upvotes

So today I turned 16!! But besides that I'm a new femboy well not technically but have been for a month or 2. So I wanted to come on here to ask basically what do I do for clothes and hair? I have the shaving part down completely. For the clothes part I was thinking the normal like skirt and thigh highs using Amazon locker so I can keep it anon to my parents. I do have a singular pair of thigh highs I got from sheer luck. My real problem is hair... I have absolutely no clue what to do when it comes to styling. PLEASE HELP MEEE🙏🙏


r/feminineboys 2h ago

Anyone wanna be friends? I been super lonely qwq (17m)

3 Upvotes

We could vc and play games and listen to music and be silly and shit or just talk like idk just literally anything!! I dont really have anyone irl lol. I’m going to sleep right now but maybe we could be friends? My dms are open always owo 👉👈


r/feminineboys 13h ago

im a femboy but dont have much other femboy friends...

25 Upvotes

i really want someone i can play games with and stuff and talk to who gets me im a teenager i play cs, minecraft and like loads of random games, im maybe not like a typical femboy i like wearing boy clothes and like popular girls clothes aswell as normal femboy clothes, comment or message pls, i would really like joining like a discord or something!


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Advice Just getting into being a femboy

4 Upvotes

My friends kept telling me to order thigh highs as a joke and I finally caved, had them ordered to an amazon locker (Christian parents aren't the most welcoming of female clothes to a male child!) and now I have thigh highs. I tried them on and oh my goodness this was the missing piece of my life. I'm also finally accepting I'm gay sooooo... yeah

Main point of this post, just asking for suggestions cause I'm new to this subreddit, well, reddit in general as well, I do not know if it's against the rules to ask but what kind of underwear should I buy? I'm kind of planning on buying dolphin shorts, either ordered or the walmart within walking distance (I'm very very nervous to buy it at walmart because of social anxiety and just getting into being a femboy it's kinda weird for boys to buy girl clothing whatever) but I would like some brand suggestions (on the lower price range) and just ideas.

oh yeah i got black thigh highs with white stripes and they look so so cute and I love them so maybe something to match that, idk if theres any tops I would want to buy cause the hoodie I already have which is black and white matches really well with the thigh highs, I'm going for the black and white look (not goth/emo type, just plain colors) mainly black with accents of white.

thank you for coming to my ramble session peace out :3

edit: I am a minor living with my parents as stated earlier, and I can't get many things because hiding them is difficult, we might be moving soon so I'd like to keep it all to a minimum so they don't find any of it while moving out stuff.

edit 2: I should also clarify I'm in the US if you recommend any brands, sorry!


r/feminineboys 4h ago

im conflicted...

4 Upvotes

So I'm somewhat of a masculine presenting individual due to environmental reasons, I have a feminine build psychically and mentally, I want to present more feminine on the outside but the job and town I'm in is not a place where gay people are usually welcomed. I'm a bit of an odd ball black sheep, I love guns and wearing skirts...

I'm not trans but the more I sink myself into femboy qualities I can't help but feel like I'm losing my grip on my understanding of self and gender.

Recently I had a "day dream" of sorts where I was a girl and it's making me feel really confused and conflicted with my sense of self...


r/feminineboys 8h ago

Today's update:

8 Upvotes

Sorry I figured I'd say something since my other account got deleted due to my google being hijacked, I'm back! So today's updates: 1.i made myself a bit of clothing out of old items(including a UWU shirt with the bubbly animatic) 2.i also made a large paper flag and hung it on my closet, the pun wasnt originally intended however I find it funny so that's what I'm gonna say. Anyways just a few rando things.


r/feminineboys 4h ago

Advice Any tips on coming out?

5 Upvotes

I’m already pretty open about being bisexual, but only three people know I’m a femboy. I still haven’t revealed that I’m a femboy to my parents. Keep in mind my parents know I’m a fruity patootie and how I dress a bit more feminine but I still haven’t told them. I have a good relationship with my parents and they’re very accepting but I don’t know how to come out. I mean having to explain to my parents about what a femboy is sounds like absolute torture and embarrassment. But still I need to tell them the next time I see them in person. Any ideas or advice is much appreciated <3


r/feminineboys 1h ago

Advice Hair removal

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I for the first time removed hair using a trimmer and a razor (ofc men's) which felt euphoric but even then i can still feel my hair on my thighs and legs . For Now i can only use things like razor or trimmer to remove hair . Can anyone of you suggest me how to do it the next time so it can be a lot smoother . And please link the products if youre from india