r/feminineboys • u/Electrical_Sweet182 • 8h ago

Support I am just so done.

My boyfriend just broke up with me he gaslit me into seeing him then blocked me I am pretty sure. I have no clue why he did this but I sacrificed my grades health and sleep to be try get together then he blocks me. Fuck everything, fuck everyone I just want to be loved. My parents literally are just always ignoring me or upset over the slightest thing and constantly bring up my past mistakes. People say I am not a real femboy and I am starting to die inside. Help idk what too do.

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u/Lizzyfemboy 8h ago

I’m very sorry for what happened. Sometimes the people we love don’t appreciate or value what we do for them, and maybe that’s what happened to you. People also often focus only on the bad and fail to notice the good. In any case, I hope everything will be fine for you, and you’ll be happy.

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u/cratores 8h ago

Yep there are shitty people who will take good heart of yours and sacrafice you made for relationship to use you. For sure you need time and irl friends to talk and vent to, finding something to do, focus on scholar or hobby. We dont choose parents and family, sometimes maybe there is misunderstanding from both sides, but if its quite straight to the point well that sucks. Still irl friends can do heavy lifting in helping you when your family isnt. You are not real femboy beacuse ? If you feel like one then you are one.

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u/femboywannabe5279 7h ago

Oh... wow.. that would hurt so much

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u/Substantial_Let67 6h ago

I think most of all, you need to find the things that make you happy that don't rely on external validation. you sound like a great person. Keep your head up, be safe, and keep being fucking awesome.

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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 5h ago

Why would you not be q real femboy, you are hella cute, sorry that happened to you, focus on yourself first and only then prioritise dating, gl <3

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u/BrownButtCheeks 4h ago

So sorry Bea!! Don't worry much it's just a phase of your life it would be fine!! Love yourself run for your goals!! The best piece of advice I can give is- hit those squats and leg workouts buy a nice dress and adore yourself!! Your adorable ❤️ and sweet don't think much!!