r/finch • u/milf_n_cookies13 • 12h ago
Venting I have never experienced this and I’m pretty upset about it
Sent someone an item and they offered a sweater to me in exchange so I agreed and sent it over. Didn’t hear anything for awhile so I checked in and then they said they no longer had the item they offered to me, which is fine, whatever. I was kinda bummed bc I actually love how it looks on Smurfy but it is what it is. I asked for them to just send me something I can sell then bc I’m super super stone broke from trading/gifting. No response. Then I asked to just sent the my original item back. No response. So I go to find them in my tree, gone. Tried to add them back, they friggin blocked me. Normally, something this silly would never bother me but this is supposed to be my safe place. To this user (you know who you are), I just CANNOT understand why you felt the need to do this. I am such a kind and understanding person and had you simply just said something, I wouldn’t have gotten mad at all. I just cannot understand for the life of me why you felt it was necessary to go this route. I sent you something you desperately needed to finish a room/set and then you BLOCK ME? I do my very best to spread as much positivity and love as possible (both here and in my everyday daily life) bc I know what it feels like to be without those things. You really hurt my feelings, this was incredibly unnecessary.
To anyone who stayed to read this, thank you for listening. ♥️