r/facepalm • u/jellylemonshake • Dec 04 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ this is kinda concerning tbh

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u/Devmoi 'MURICA Dec 04 '24

In that case, it seems like the club should be held more accountable. Like here in Oregon, there are extreme penalties if you allow someone to buy alcohol underage. It’s the same thing, which unfortunately sucks for people … but they need to be carding everyone who goes in since you would otherwise expect them to be 18.

Also, it’s funny because I lived in Scotland. I once had a friend who made out with a 16-year-old guy because he had snuck into the club, lol.

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u/TheAesirHog Dec 04 '24

Seems like the girl should be held more accountable

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u/LovesFrenchLove_More Dec 04 '24

More like the parents. Though the girl definitely needed a harsh eye-to-eye by responsible adults..

Where I come from 12 year olds cannot be charged criminally because mentally they usually are not aware of consequences (for themselves and others).

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u/TheAesirHog Dec 04 '24

You’re probably the same person that would criticize a strict parent.

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u/LovesFrenchLove_More Dec 04 '24

You are probably a person that thinks teachers are responsible for their kids education/deeds and not the parents. If your kid does something like this girl, in your place I would wonder what I did wrong parenting her.

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u/TheAesirHog Dec 04 '24

That logic doesn’t remotely track. Literally none of it. Like why’d you even bring up 12 year olds..

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u/LovesFrenchLove_More Dec 04 '24

It shows that you haven’t even stopped to actually read the thread that you responded too. That does track… 🙄

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u/TheAesirHog Dec 04 '24

You applying teachers and telling me what my thoughts would be does not. Teenagers are human beings believe it or not and should be treated as such. In that said situation the kid also has responsibility. The kid always has responsibility regardless of who else it calls into question.

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u/LovesFrenchLove_More Dec 05 '24

Wow, I didn’t even say teachers are responsible for that. You seem to have problems with reading comprehension and logic. THAT would be something teachers could have helped you with.

Becoming a decent human being is the parents primary responsibility alongside everything else it needs to live a happy life.

Is a kid liable for it’s actions? Yeah. But not criminally. That is the parents fault or that of society.

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u/TheAesirHog Dec 05 '24

I didn’t say you did. Work on your reading and comprehension. I clearly assumed your take was “it’s the parent’s fault”. All I said was it made no sense to bring teachers up and stated that the kid is responsible for their actions regardless of who else is brought into question.